It’s easy to assume that once you hit a certain income or wealth level, money worries will simply disappear. But here’s the truth: many women earning well – even six figures or more – still don’t feel financially secure.
Financial wellness isn’t about the size of your salary or bank balance. It’s about confidence, clarity, and control over both your present and future finances.
Money Stress Doesn’t Disappear With Success
We often hear from women who’ve achieved incredible things – built thriving businesses, landed senior roles, or inherited wealth – yet still feel unsettled about their money.
Why? Because financial success without financial wellbeing can leave you feeling just as stressed, only with higher stakes.
For example:
- You might earn more now but feel pressure to keep up with an upgraded lifestyle – the classic lifestyle creep that leaves you stretched, despite higher earnings.
- You could receive an inheritance or a business windfall, yet feel paralysed about how to manage or invest it wisely.
In both cases, the money is there, but the confidence isn’t – and that’s where stress sneaks in.
It’s Not Just About Money – It’s About Feeling in Control
True financial wellbeing comes from two things:
- Feeling secure and in control of your day-to-day finances.
- Feeling confident that your future finances will support the life you want.
When either of those feels shaky – no matter how much you earn – stress quickly follows.
How to Start Feeling Financially Well
If you’re earning well but not feeling financially well, here’s where to begin:
1. Get Honest About What’s Causing Stress
Ask yourself:
- Am I worried about money now, in the future, or both?
- Is my stress about spending, saving, investing, or something else entirely?
2. Identify What’s Missing
Do you need better habits, more knowledge, or the right tools?
- If spending feels out of control, it may be time to revisit your budget.
- If you’re unsure how to grow your money, learning the basics of investing could change everything.
It’s OK not to have all the answers – the key is to start asking the right questions.
3. Break It Into Manageable Steps
Trying to “fix” everything at once will only overwhelm you.
Pick one area to focus on and take it step by step:
- Find trusted resources (like our Enable Membership or podcasts).
- Learn what you need to know, without pressure or shame.
- Put simple systems in place – even a 10-minute monthly money check-in makes a difference.
And if you’re still feeling stuck? A chat with one of our Money Mentors can bring clarity faster than you think.
You Deserve More Than Just Financial Success – You Deserve Financial Peace
Earning well is something to celebrate. But you also deserve to feel good about your money – calm, confident, and fully in control of your financial future.
If you’re ready to bridge the gap between success and financial wellness, we’re here to help you do it – no jargon, no judgement, just practical support.
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